Amsterdam Big Weekend

Your group has hair and make-up done by professional stylists, then moves to a studio or set for a photoshoot. The photographer takes group shots and portraits, and you choose your favourite images afterwards. It is a lovely way to spend time with the bride, and you all leave with photographs to keep from the weekend. Tell us about any skin allergies when booking. Bring the outfits you want to be photographed in.

Options range from a sightseeing cruise with a drink on arrival to a private boat with a DJ and a bar. On the coast, many trips stop for a swim. Your booking states what is included: drinks, food, music and how long you are on the water. Being on a boat keeps the group together in one place without anyone wandering off, and it gives you the best photographs of the weekend. Bring a layer for the evening breeze and flat shoes for the deck.

We book a restaurant that can seat the whole group together, usually on a set menu so ordering is quick and the bill is simple. Private rooms are available in many places. Dinner is often the moment the whole group is in one place, so it is a good time for speeches, a gift for the bride, or a game the group has prepared. Collect dietary needs early. Most restaurants need them a few days before.

Shows range from a dinner with a drag host to a full cabaret with singers and dancers. Your group is seated together, and many venues offer a set meal or a drinks package with the tickets. Performers often bring the bride into the act, so tell us if she would rather stay in her seat. Dress codes are usually smart casual. Arrive at the stated time, because seating is allocated in order.